In the beginning 2024 I left my job of 7 years to focus on finishing graduate school. I was in a three year graduate program that included evening classes and required internship hours. At first it was manageable but having a full time job, evening classes and an internship that demanded a lot of time and energy. It made me stressed and decreased my happiness and optimism. I became negative and jaded. It started to impact how I approached my day to day and it wasn’t healthy. I was very fortunate to have the support of my family and friends and I created a safety net savings account. I know my experience won’t be relatable to some but I hope you can find something helpful from my journey. What I learned:
- If you can, quit the job. A job is a job. It doesn’t define who you are as a person. Your identity is not your position. Your character defines you.
- Reconnect with what makes you happy. Sometimes you can get caught up in the work hustle which is harmful and I hate that it is the norm to mass produce. Prioritize your joy.
- Rest. That is all.
- Life is short. We have freewill. Do that thing on your bucket list.
- Find your consistency.
I am now employed. I am using my degree and I feel excited to be in my new role. I am grateful that I was able to have my funemployment phase because I came back into my job with a new perspective and firm boundaries of how I look at work. I wish everyone well on their work/life balance and I am a firm advocate of doing what is best for you.
-Aasha
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